I genuinely do not believe that people treat you the way they feel about you. I believe that what people say and do to you is simply just a projection of their own reality and insecurities. Some people unintentionally hurt you because they’re at war with themselves and they’re suffering with things that have absolutely nothing to do with you. It’s not your life if you’re always caring about what others think of you or the way others treat you. Don’t let anyone take away the way you want to live your life from you. It’s your life. Don’t let their projections of themselves affect the way you see yourself or treat yourself. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering. Even when something appears to be so personal, even when others personally criticize you, it has nothing to do with you. They act in accordance with the agreements they have in their own thoughts, which are reflected in what they say and do. Don’t be too concerned with the actions of others. Truth is, regardless of what you may do and despite how hard you may try, you cannot and will not have ultimate control over the behaviors and beliefs of another person. So please, do not drain yourself worrying about the ways of the world. Instead, use that energy to focus on yourself. Amplify your own intentions, attitudes, and behaviors. Spend time being the person you would like to see in others. Your pure and authentic energy will have a greater impact than any degree of control ever will.
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such a beautiful mind