Despite my best intentions, I have learnt not to fight for people who aren't interested in staying in my life. You can’t force someone to stick around forever, no matter how hard you try. People come and people go. That’s how things are going to be. Now what you choose to do with those who stay, that’s what matters. But with those who left, it’s their loss. You’ve done everything that you could do. You’ve said everything that you could say. You’ve been patient, you’ve waited. You’ve given them parts of you, parts you’ve never given to anyone else before. You’ve compromised in ways you never imagined yourself compromising. Now is when you draw the line. Enough. When I think about the enormity of this earth and the millions of people you could possibly meet. I think of the people I have met and how crazy that is, all of the humans in this world and somehow for some reason you ended up with them. And I think you should cherish that in a way. The people in your life are merely a result of chance. I believe that chance occurs for a reason. Letting go of what let go of you will never discredit the good. Sometimes people are only meant to be in seasons of your life, not forever. It’s okay to let them go, do as they did to you but not in spite, do it for your wellbeing. Do it for you. And when someone lets go of you, it’s important to remember that it was never truly about you. We all face our own battles, we’re all going through our own things. Sometimes someone lets you go simply because they have too much going on. Let them go. If something or someone is meant to be yours, it will be yours. As for now, let go of what is no longer serving you. It’ll feel so liberating, I promise.
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